Getting a Handle on Sibling Rivalry
“Mom, Oliver pulled my doll's head off again!” “I know you are, but what am I?” “Dad, Emily looked at me!” Sound familiar?
Who Apologizes First?
“He started it!” “No, she did!” That’s how a lot of childhood arguments sound, and the common mistake that a lot of parents make is to dig in and try
Simple Arithmetic = A Better Life!
Is your life perfect just the way it is? If so, you can stop reading now. However, if you’re normal there’s probably something that could be better.
How to Guarantee Fewer Problems in Your Life
Do you want to experience fewer “problems” in your life? Great, keep reading.
I was talking with a couple recently, and
Real Freedom
As an American I am mindful of the value of being free. When our nation’s founders signed the Declaration of Independence, they were focused on freedom
The Importance of a Dad
If I asked you to tell me about your father, you might give me a variety of responses. Maybe you weren’t raised by your biological father.
Talking to Your Kids About Financial Difficulties – Part II
Last time we talked about the importance of including children in discussions about financial difficulties your family may be facing.
Talking to Your Kids About Financial Difficulties – Part 1
Listen to any news outlet or scroll the headlines on your phone – or just take a look at your bank statement – and it’s evident that finances
Escape from Groundhog Day
Have you seen the movie Groundhog Day? It features Bill Murray as a weatherman named Phil with a bad attitude who finds himself reliving February 2nd
Escape the Argument Trap: A Strategy Guaranteed to STOP the Endless, Pointless Arguing with Children and Teens
As a father of three adult children and three grandchildren who are old enough to talk (and, therefore, old enough to argue) I know a lot about the
Principles for Effective Listening - Part II
In our last blog, we shared Part I of Principles for Effective Listening. We addressed the “how-to” of listening. If you’ve been practicing the techniques outlined,
Principles for Effective Listening - Part I
Listening is one of the most powerful tools of communication, leadership and relationships. Here are some things you can begin doing today
How Do I Get My Spouse to Help Me? – Part III
In my first two posts addressing the question of how to get your spouse to help around the house, I talked about two key components to the answer.
How Do I Get My Spouse to Help Me? – Part II
Today I will continue to address the complaint I hear from (mostly) wives about carrying a disproportionate burden of maintaining and managing their home.
How Do I Get My Spouse to Help Me? Part I
In my years of counseling couples in marriage therapy, I have heard a lot of different reasons for the tension and anger that can create strife in even the best marriages.
Seven Promises of a Successful Marriage
A marriage is created by a promise made, but it can only thrive by a promise kept. If you want your marriage to thrive commit to keeping these
Are You Putting on an Act?
Lights! Camera! Action! When the spotlight of life is focused on you, what do people see? Are you an actor just playing a role or are you the “real thing?”
Overcoming the Effects of Verbal Abuse - Part I
What is Verbal Abuse?
What you say: Verbal abuse is often defined as a pattern of verbal behavior
Here Today, Gone Tomorrow: Make Parenting Count
Kurt and Emily stood beside Michael’s crib gazing in wonder at their brand-new baby son. The months of waiting were over
Are you STILL angry?
Intimacy is the fuel that powers every couple’s emotional engine. It’s what makes your relationship special – those moments when you catch